Mary G. "Jimmy" Hagedorn WORCESTER — Mary Genevieve “Jimmy” Hagedorn died by choice on April 16, 2019, at the Worcester home of her daughter, Francette Cerulli and son-in-law Mick Eckart. They were by her side. Born Feb. 26, 1921, daughter of Odetta Schettig and William Gerald Buck, in Wilkinsburg, Pennsylvania, Mary was the eighth of 11 children. After graduating from Wilkinsburg High School during the Great Depression, Mary earned a full scholarship to either college or secretarial school. She chose to attend Grace Martin’s Secretarial School in Pittsburgh so she could help support her family. She married Nicholas Francis Cerulli before the age of 20, and later moved to Caldwell, New Jersey. They had five children. Their marriage ended in divorce in 1976. Mary later married Henry G. Hagedorn and moved to Morristown. Their marriage ended in divorce when he sought to curtail her beloved outdoor activities. Mary’s happiest years were as a single woman when she lived in a garden apartment for 25 years in Lake Hiawatha, New Jersey. In September 2018, at the age of 97, she chose to move in with her Vermont family and stop driving. When her youngest child began kindergarten, Mary discovered the joy of the outdoors and began a long career introducing others to the wilderness. In New Jersey starting in the late-1960s, Mary scouted and helped lead hikes for the Essex County Dept. of Parks. She was later employed by Frost Valley YMCA of New York to lead hikes, bike rides and cross-country ski trips, and to organize canoeing expeditions ranging from La Verendrye Provincial Park in Canada to Okefenokee Swamp and the Suwanee River in Georgia. Mary loved to travel. She visited most of the 50 states in her lifetime, and Scandinavia and Alaska through Elderhostel. With her daughter, Toni-Lee, she spent six weeks in Europe, one of the highlights of her long life. Mary was pleased to know that part of her would continue to travel on after her death: her pacemaker will be refurbished and sent to a Third World country. In her later years, Mary ushered at theaters in the Morristown area, near her home. She drove safely until she was almost 98, and would often drive ‘the youngsters’ in their 70s, home after dark. Though Mary never got a formal college degree, she earned advanced standing in College Level Examination Program tests worth 30 college credits. She read voraciously her entire life. An avid student, she earned Red Cross certificates in First Aid, Basic Canoeing, CPR, and took introductory and advanced courses in ecology at the Somerset County Nature Center. Besides her daughter and son-in-law, Mary leaves her sons Mark Cerulli and former wife Frances Moore Cerulli, of Cape Cod, Kurt Cerulli and wife Mary, of Boston, daughter Lynn Phillips and husband Joseph, of Marrero, Louisiana, honorary daughter Debbie Cerulli and husband Ray Saulino, of Potomac Falls, Virginia, son-in-law Ronald Sudol, of Boston; grandsons Domenic, Carmine, Christopher, Tovar and Adam, granddaughters Celia, Andrea, Zephyr, Paige, Mary Lindsay, Nicola and Rossella; great-grandchildren Dylan, Francesca, Antonia, Avery, Gabriel, Ari, Grace, Laura, Benji, Emily, Lily and Thorin. She also leaves her adventure partner, Cherryll Short, of Montville, New Jersey, and Cherryll’s daughters Debra Seftel and Terri Short Lyons. Mary was predeceased by all of her siblings; and by her daughter, Toni-Lee Capossela, in November of 2017. Mary’s family wishes to thank Central Vermont Home Health and Hospice for their excellent and reassuring palliative support during Mary’s final journey and especially, Emily Byrne, DNP, FNP-BC, for believing and supporting Mary’s lucid explanation of why she wanted to exit life when she did. There are no calling hours. Mary did not want a service for herself, but she regretted that programs at her small neighborhood branch library in New Jersey were being slowly reduced over the years for lack of funding. So, she requested any donations made in her memory be sent specifically to the Lake Hiawatha Public Library branch, at 68 Nokomis Ave., Lake Hiawatha, NJ 07034. Those wishing to express online condolences may visit www.guareandsons.com.

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