More on bigotry
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Published: April 10, 2009
Thank you so much for all of your responses to my March 30 letter, "Bigotry, plain and simple." I'm glad I was able to engender so much strong feeling. It's an important topic and I'm glad the debate is so free. Though most of it has been taken care of by others, I wanted to address a few criticisms.
The definition of "bigot" I used is from Dictionary.com. I like to think that I'm pretty tolerant of others' opinions, but I also believe that everyone's right to extend their arm ends at the next person's nose. I don't think that anyone should be able to impose their religious beliefs on others, and I'm getting tired of bigots out there bumping my nose. If you're saying that the gay marriage bill does that to you, then you're wrong. No one is asking anyone to marry anyone they don't want to. And people who aren't Christians shouldn't be limited by what Christians consider proper. We do not live in a theocracy like Iran; this here is the good ol' U.S.A., a republic/democracy. Not that the majority gets to decide what rights we have. Some of our rights are inalienable. That means the majority cannot vote them away. Is marriage a religious issue or a state issue? The argument that marriage is a religious institution is moot. I can get married without going anywhere near a church or priest (any judge or JOP will do), but I can't get married without a piece of paper from the state saying it's okay. Marriage's relationship with the church as far as the legal ramifications, is tangential at best.
A couple of follow-up points. Does gay marriage somehow impose a lifestyle on others? Think about this one – no more than heterosexual marriage imposes on gay folks. And for those who claim that this is not about "equal rights," that civil unions provide everything necessary — you're wrong. As we learned 40 plus years ago, "Separate But Equal" is not equal. All that this is about is equal rights.
Bennett Shapiro
Middlesex


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